I did it!! I did it!!

A whole sober weekend & I felt okay.  There were a few triggers here & there but I brushed them aside. I actually can’t  believe it was as easy as it was. I thought I might have terrible triggers all day Sunday but no I just got on with the day. It was a family day at home & I was fully present. My husband is being very loving & I can feel a better bound forming.

Today is Monday & I went to work as usual & I was criticized for something I had done on Friday which my boss brought to light to me. I felt disappointed. I am the kind of person that would get anxious about that & carry it with me for the day. I tried to reassure myself it was okay & you learn by your mistakes & even though it was something small my confidence was a little dented. I collected my son from school after work & walking home the thought did come into my head as it does each Monday oh wouldn’t it be nice to drink later & chill on the couch. There it was that inner voice which I thought – that is all it is a voice, it’s not you it’s the drink monster poking at you to drink. I said to myself – no it’s not going to win that silly thought does not control my happiness, even if it is going to be hard it is not going to ruin my life & I went home drink free & got on with my day…..success!!

I feel more productive, in the zone, present & optimistic. I am not fully there yet – maybe I will always have those thoughts to deal with & I hope I can always deal with them. I hope I can just learn to like me & not be afraid of what people think of me.

Let’s keep going !